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Wedding planning
is hard and a very stressful task for most couples. The truth is, every bride
and groom experiences pre-wedding
jitters once in a while. Just remind yourself that you’ll never know what’s
on the other side of the road unless you surpass your fears. Lastly, you should
believe that this is definitely meant for you. Just trust your instinct and
leap for tomorrow’s happiness.
Common factors that cause pre-wedding jitters
There
are a lot of factors that can cause a bride and a groom to experience pre-wedding jitters. Don’t worry, this
is perfectly normal. Primarily because, we all experiences intense emotions
before a special event. Often times, we feel an urge to back-out. But, eventually we
just need to gather our strength and face our fears. With that, here are some
reasons that might explain why those butterflies in your stomach are there
before your special day.
- Stress – It’s the primary reason why most couples experience pre-wedding jitters. Ok, it’s the big day for you. You want it to be the best thing that could ever happen in your life. You’ve worked hard and tried everything in your power to make it work. In the end, all those tensions and pressure will consume you. If this ever happens, just relax and take some time to reflect why you’re doing this in the first place. Think about all those days that you and your special someone spent feeling so in love with each other. And finally, remember that all you want to do is to spend the rest of your life together.
- Fear – We all have our fears because in reality most of us are afraid of what the future holds. Just keep in mind that, whatever trials destiny might bring, you belong with each other. With that, face your future with your head up. Remember that there are always solutions for every trial we encounter. Forget about pre-wedding jitters and walk the aisle with confidence and unafraid of what tomorrow brings.
- Doubts – We always think that we know our special someone the
moment we hold their hand and look at their eyes. But, sometimes you will
feel insecure and doubtful. Nonetheless, always remember, life is a
mystery and everyday is a chance to further know ourselves. Trust is one
thing, establish it. As much as possible lessen your interactions with “negative
thinkers”. You should also avoid reading about unsuccessful marriages. This
will only make matters worse. The bottom line is, you said yes, you love
him and tell yourself “it is all worth it!”
- Insecurities – Funny and yet it’s true. Every wedding should be perfect. Your body, your hair, make-up and so on. But, as far as everyone’s concern, it doesn’t really matter how a bride looks. Since that day is all about you and your love story. Just be yourself and have fun. Enjoy every single second because this day only happens once. Cherish it and make it a memory worth remembering. Just relax, forget about your pre-wedding jitters and everything will be alright.
With
that being said, I bid you good luck and wish you a happily ever after. This is
your day and no one could ruin it for you. Love is the greatest weapon of all,
so stand up straight, breathe and face your special someone with all your heart.
Make your dream come true. Remember, pre-wedding
jitters is just a phase that every couple goes through.
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